· Ed Dowding · Portfolio · 3 min read
PocketPoppins
AI parenting copilot combining effortless memory capture via WhatsApp with personalized developmental guidance and contextual Q&A against both family history and trusted frameworks.

The Problem
Parents face three simultaneous challenges: information overload (contradictory advice from endless sources), memory loss (precious moments forgotten in daily chaos), and generic guidance that doesn’t account for their specific child’s journey. Existing solutions fragment these needs across separate apps—memory books, tracking tools, milestone apps, advice platforms—none talking to each other.
The core insight: parents don’t need more information. They need a system that knows their child’s history, applies trusted frameworks contextually, and reduces cognitive load rather than adding to it.
What I Built
PocketPoppins is an “omni-competent” AI parenting assistant that operates entirely via WhatsApp:
Effortless Memory Capture
- Parents WhatsApp family moments naturally: “Olivia said ‘mama’ for the first time!”
- AI auto-timestamps, classifies (milestone/medical/activity/funny), builds searchable timeline
- Shared family access (parents, grandparents, nannies all contribute)
Personalized Developmental Guidance
- AI suggests age-appropriate activities based on the individual child’s stage + interests
- “Olivia is 18 months, loves music → Try these rhythm games that boost language development”
- Proactive pattern detection: “Olivia tends to get fevers during teething weeks—watch for gum swelling”
Contextual Q&A (Dual Knowledge Base)
- Parents ask any question via WhatsApp
- AI combines two knowledge sources:
- Institutional: NHS guidance, developmental frameworks, medical advice, safety standards
- Family History: Previous illnesses, doctor visits, preferences, established patterns
- Example: “What foods are safe for 6-month-olds?” → AI blends NHS weaning guidelines + your baby’s allergy history + what you’ve already successfully introduced
Family Coordination
- Partners/caregivers sync context: “What did the doctor say?” → Search yields full conversation history
- Eliminates the “repeated questions” problem when care is distributed
The Tech Stack
- Frontend: Next.js 14 with App Router for optimal performance
- Backend: Supabase (PostgreSQL + Auth + Row Level Security)
- AI: OpenAI GPT-4 with custom prompts blending user data + medical/developmental frameworks
- Messaging: WhatsApp Business API for two-way communication
- Hosting: Vercel Edge Functions for sub-100ms response times globally
Lessons Learned
Dual Knowledge Bases Create Moats The breakthrough wasn’t the AI (commodity) or WhatsApp integration (easy to copy). It was the architecture that lets AI answer questions using BOTH contributed memories AND trusted reference materials. A generic chatbot can’t do “What activities suit MY 18-month-old?”—you need user data + frameworks combined.
Frictionless Beats Feature-Rich Early prototypes had dashboards, graphs, milestone charts—all ignored. Users wanted zero friction: WhatsApp message in, intelligent response out. We deleted 70% of the UI and engagement tripled. The lesson: parents need cognitive load reduction, not more surfaces to check.
Personalization Justifies Premium Pricing Free parenting advice is infinite. But “advice that knows Olivia’s history, detects patterns, and applies NHS guidelines to her specific journey”—that’s worth £7-10/month. The value isn’t information, it’s relevant-to-ME information delivered at the right moment.
Platform Validation Unlocks B2B Building PocketPoppins proved the core platform (WhatsApp ⟷ AI ⟷ Dual Knowledge Base) works in a competitive consumer market. That validation opened B2B opportunities: the same architecture now serves foundations (field team updates), ESG companies (operations reporting), and housing associations (tenant engagement).
Retention = Product-Market Fit 60%+ month-1 retention told us more than any survey. Parents who used it once kept using it. The metric validated that we weren’t just “nice to have”—we were solving a daily problem worth integrating into family routines.